Have you ever dated a serial texter or had your girlfriend texts too much.?? How do you slow her down?? I got a message from Ben last week who had this problem and he didn’t want to hurt her feelings but her constant texting was driving him bonkers.
Help, my girlfriend texts me too much.? She is constantly checking in with me.? She tells me when she is going to work, when she is coming home, she texts me good morning and good night.? Hardly an hour goes by that she doesn’t send me a text.? I like her and would like to keep dating her, but if she keeps this up I think it may turn into a deal breaker.? Do you have any techniques or suggestions to help me slow down my girlfriend texting me too much??? Ben
Obviously her behavior is making you uncomfortable.? Is it just her texting habits or are her texting habits perhaps evidence of a deeper issue that she may have like insecurity?? I know you didn’t ask me to delve into deeper issues here, but it is something to think about.?? That being said, I will get back on track.? Why are you hesitant to just tell her how you feel about her texting too much?? Do you think she won’t be able to emotionally handle it or are you scared of coming across as the bad guy? ?
I imagine your girlfriend texting you too much may be beginning to make you feel smothered.? I think you should just address it head on and perhaps in person.? There really is no technique to slow her down unless you just start responding at a slower pace.? I would simply tell her that you are busy during the day and don’t really have time for conversation via text or that perhaps texting just isn’t your thing.? Seriously, don’t be a doormat and she will respect you more.? If this upsets her, you may have the wrong girl.? Simple as that. ?
A note of warning here to any guy who has a girl that texts too much.? It may very well be a sign of control issues on her part.? A girl that texts you all the time will usually turn into clingy and depends on you for her sense of well being.? It may also be a sign of her lack of self control.? Try ignoring her for a day and see how she reacts.? If your girlfriend texts too much, it may be a sign of drama ahead.? Handle it now to minimize it’s effects.