First impressions are important. If you don’t know how to talk to a girl on Facebook for the first time, you could literally shoot yourself in the foot or rather put your foot in your mouth. I can’t tell you how many time I as a woman have just rolled my eyes at men trying to talk to me on Facebook.
Usually when I change my profile pic on Facebook, they start coming out of the woodwork because men are visual creatures I suppose. While that is nice and everything, believe it or not the way to reach a woman is not by commenting on or because of her looks. That is not how you make an impression.
Before you approach a woman for the first time on Facebook, please do your homework. Check out her profile, read on her timeline. Find out what she is about and get some feel for who she is. Don’t just barge into her inbox or message her without knowing something about her. Who do you plan on talking about if you don’t know anything about her? Yourself? Say it isn’t so.
I have always felt the best approach when you want to talk to a girl on Facebook, especially for the first time is a slower one. Perhaps like a few of her comments or posts. When I say comments or posts, things that she cares about or likes. Don’t go liking every single one. A few a week perhaps, maybe a short thought out comment that lets her know if you are paying attention.
Do not go through her timeline and like all of her pictures please. Warning, this is just creepy for a girl.
So when you talk to a girl the first time on Facebook, you want to make her feel a connection. I recently had a man message me that he really enjoyed my posts and that he appreciated my directness. That went way further with me than another man who mailed me and told me how hot he thought I was or how he wanted to run his fingers through my hair. Jeez I didn’t even know him. Clueless is the word that comes to our minds.
Girls get approached by guys on Facebook all the time. Most of them are pretty lame and have no clue how to start, let alone keep an interesting conversation going. To start a conversation with a girl on Facebook and? connect with her you need to be able to make her feel emotions with your words. You need to be able to start some conversation chemistry. You can check that out here.